Tired Dad Gamers [TIREDDADS] - Organizations

History

Our History: The Story of the Crew

The org known as Tired Dad Gamers wasn’t forged in the fire of some grand battle or conceived in a corporate boardroom. It started quietly, in the scattered, late-night hours of the Stanton system, fueled by lukewarm coffee and the shared understanding that a sudden “AFK” could mean anything from a crying baby to a work email that just couldn’t wait.

Our founding members were a handful of pilots who, like many, had tried to find their place in the ‘verse. They joined various orgs, flew with different crews, and always ran into the same wall: the expectation that the game would be their top priority. They were tired. Not just from long days at work or early mornings with the kids, but tired of the pressure to be ‘always on’ in a world they escaped to for fun.

One night, after a mission fell apart because three different members had to suddenly drop for family duties, the idea was born. They didn’t need a hardcore PMC or a ruthless syndicate; they needed a support group that also happened to fly spaceships. They needed a name that was honest, direct, and left no room for doubt about who they were and what their priorities were.

And so, Tired Dad Gamers was founded. The name wasn’t a joke; it was a banner for anyone who fit the description, a straightforward declaration of their identity.

What began as a simple pact between a few pilots grew organically. Word spread through system chat, on forums, and in quiet conversations at space stations. Other pilots, who thought their days of organized group play were over, found a home with us. They were veterans, greenhorns, industrial tycoons, and rough-and-tumble bounty hunters, all united by the simple fact that their real-world responsibilities came first.

Today, [TIREDDADS] is more than just a tag. It’s a banner for a thriving community of mature, like-minded individuals who know that the greatest adventures are the ones you can still enjoy without sacrificing your life outside the game. Our history is still being written—one cargo run, one dogfight, and one hastily-interrupted gaming session at a time. And we wouldn’t have it any other way.

Manifesto

The Tired Dad Gamers Manifesto

Gaming is not our job. It’s not our primary responsibility. For us, it’s the escape—the precious few hours we carve out after the kids are asleep, the deadlines are met, and the real world is finally quiet. In a gaming landscape that often demands more time and energy than we have to give, we choose a different path.

This is what we stand for.

1. Real Life is Non-Negotiable.
We hold this truth to be self-evident: your life outside the game comes first. Always. No exceptions. A child’s nightmare, a sick pet, a work emergency, or just the need for sleep—these are not interruptions to be excused. They are life. We will never ask you to prioritize a virtual objective over a real-world responsibility.

2. Patience is Our Greatest Virtue.
Our reflexes may have been nerfed by age and sleep deprivation, but our patience is legendary. We don’t rage-quit. We don’t yell at new players. We understand that missions go sideways, controls are confusing, and sometimes you just completely forget how to get out of your own ship’s seat. It’s okay. We’ll wait.

3. We Value People Over Pixels.
Your kill/death ratio is irrelevant here. Your profit-per-hour doesn’t matter. We measure the success of a gaming session by the quality of the company, the shared laughter over comms, and the sense of camaraderie. We are a community first and a gaming organization second.

4. Maturity is Mandatory.
We are adults. We act like it. We have zero tolerance for toxicity, elitism, racism, bigotry, or drama. We are here to build each other up and provide a safe, respectful haven from the noise of the internet and the stresses of daily life.

5. Fun is the Only Grind.
There are no mandatory operations. There are no attendance sheets. There are no performance reviews. This is not a second job. Your only obligation is to relax, de-stress, and have fun. Whether that means joining a coordinated group activity or just flying solo in a party channel for some quiet company, the choice is always yours.

We don’t promise galactic domination or elite status. We promise something far more valuable: a place where you can log in, take a deep breath, and remember why you fell in love with gaming in the first place.

If this is what you’ve been looking for, then welcome home.

Charter

The Official Charter of Tired Dad Gamers [TIREDDADS]

Date of Ratification: September 8, 2025

Preamble:
This document establishes the official charter for the organization known as Tired Dad Gamers. It serves as the guiding constitution for all members, outlining our mission, our principles, and the code of conduct we uphold. We are founded on the belief that gaming should be a relaxing escape, not a source of stress. This charter exists to protect that belief and ensure our community remains a welcoming haven for adults with real-world priorities.

Article I: Name and Identity

The official name of this organization shall be Tired Dad Gamers. The recognized organizational tag for in-game representation shall be [TIREDDADS].

Article II: Mission Statement

The mission of Tired Dad Gamers is to provide a mature, patient, and flexible gaming community for adults with demanding lives. We are committed to fostering a no-pressure environment where real life always comes first, and where camaraderie and mutual respect are valued above all in-game achievements.

Article III: Core Principles

The Principle of Real-Life Priority: The well-being of our members and their families is paramount. No member will ever be penalized, questioned, or made to feel guilty for prioritizing family, work, health, or any other real-world commitment over gaming. The Principle of Respect and Maturity: All members shall conduct themselves with maturity and respect towards others, both within the organization and in the wider gaming community. We are a drama-free zone. The Principle of Inclusivity: We welcome all mature individuals who share our values, regardless of skill level, in-game wealth, background, or identity. Elitism and gatekeeping have no place here. The Principle of No-Pressure Gaming: Participation in all events, operations, or group activities is strictly voluntary. Fun is the only objective, and members are encouraged to play in the way that best suits their schedule and mood. The Principle of Community Support: We are more than a collection of players; we are a support network. Members are encouraged to help one another, share knowledge, and contribute positively to the community atmosphere.

Article IV: Membership

Section A: Eligibility: Membership is open to mature individuals (18+ recommended) who have read, understood, and agree to abide by this charter. Section B: Code of Conduct: All members must adhere to the following: Do not engage in harassment, hate speech, bullying, or any form of toxic behavior. Maintain a respectful and constructive tone in all communications. Do not cheat, exploit, or engage in activities that violate the Terms of Service of the games we play. Represent the [TIREDDADS] tag with honor and decency. Section C: Inactivity: We understand that life can pull you away for weeks or even months. Members will not be removed for inactivity. You are welcome back whenever you return. Section D: Removal: A member may be removed from the organization for gross or repeated violations of this charter, as determined by the organization’s leadership.

Article V: Leadership and Structure

Structure: Tired Dad Gamers maintains a simple, flat leadership structure. Leadership Role: The leadership (e.g., “Admins,” “Moderators”) are not commanders, but stewards of the community. Their primary responsibilities are to facilitate a positive environment, mediate disputes fairly, and uphold the principles of this charter. Governance: Leadership decisions will be made with the health and guiding principles of the community as the highest priority.

Article VI: Amendments

This charter may be amended to better serve the needs of the community. Any proposed amendments will be reviewed by the leadership and adopted if they are found to be in alignment with the organization’s core mission and principles.

This charter is binding for all members of Tired Dad Gamers. By joining and remaining a member, you affirm your commitment to these principles.

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